Flourish in the love and peace God designed for you to enjoy.





Nearly half of all marital struggles develop within the first few years. Most couples try to push through their problems rather than get to the root of them. Unhealthy patterns develop, and the marriage begins to drift apart rather than conitnue to draw near.

Over time, communication breaks down. Life becomes increasingly complicated. Minor disagreements inflame hurt. Personal differences inflate frustration. Couples begin to feel trapped and wonder if they can ever get back to the love they feel they are losing.

Whether you are in a healthy, loving, and affirming relationship - or you are holding on by a thread, the tools for cultivating a fulfilling marriage are the same. It is very possible to reconnect and grow a fruitful marriage that lasts a lifetime. You just have to start. 


“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient,
bearing with one another in love.” - Ephesians 4:2

Invest In Your Most Important Relationship


Marriage Care provides a safe and nurturing environment for couples to grow in understanding, forgiveness, healing, unity, and love. This includes the sacred journey of:

  • hearing and being heard
  • resolving frustrations and conflict
  • developing effective patterns of communication
  • and working together as a team

Marriage requires a radical commitment to love each other as you are, while at the same time longing for each other to become fully who God created and redeemed you to be.


Connect more deeply and constantly
Discover how to express gratitude
Embrace the freedom of walking in forgiveness
Heal from past wounds
Rekindle joy with kindness and compassion
Grow in emotional and sexual intimacy


Experience genuine fulfillment in God’s design and blessing for marriage by investing in one another. You are both worth it. The reward is great. Your commitment impacts generations.


“Do everything in love.” - 1 Corinthians 16:14

Ready To Rediscover the Blessing of Marriage God Designed For You To Enjoy?


1 Hour Session: $155

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90 Minute Session: $205

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“Working with Matt Kessler for our premarital counseling was one of the best things that happened to us during our season of engagement. Matt is so gifted at what he does and we continue to see benefit from our time together. Matt fostered growth and connection in our relationship, helping us to build a strong foundation for marriage. He provides deep biblical insight with authenticity, humor, genuine care.”

- Jordan and Katherine


“Matt’s care was so beneficial to us! We really appreciated the time to be poured into. Putting in the time and effort to better understand each other's preferences, personality, and needs is completely worthwhile. It highlighted better ways for us to connect and communicate, especially when things get tough or stressful. Sticking to the roots of what God wants for us and how we honor Him with our marriage will continue to be the best."

- Mitchell and Mallory


“Matt is the absolute best and a breath of fresh air when it comes to teaching and relating to us. He helped us feel heard, understood, and loved. He stays true to the Word and can help any couple no matter if they are newlyweds or 50 years deep. The teachings, tools, skills, and lesson he teaches will not only help you understand your spouse better but will also help you understand yourself better.”

- Eric and Brooke

Is Marriage Care Right For Me?


This Is For You If You Are Wondering:

  • How can we talk and listen more effectively?
  • How can we express love in meaningful ways that build up one another?
  • How do we honor one another - even in our differences?
  • How do we get along with our in-laws?
  • How do we address the effects of childhood pain?
  • How do we parent as a unified team?
  • How do we resolve conflict rather than avoid it?
  • How can we renew and expand our sexual intimacy?

Become each other’s greatest fans. Have each other’s backs. Grow closer - even as imperfect you are.

A good and fruitful marriage isn’t something merely to be kept; it’s something you make and keep on making. With all of your heart, mind, soul, and strength - ascribe worth to God by loving one another as God loves you in Christ.

“A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.”

- Ruth Bell Graham


Hey! I’m so glad you found Revelo. I provide Gospel guidance for spiritual, emotional, and relational health. Through transformational leadership coaching, spiritual direction, marriage care, online courses, and wilderness adventure - I encourage and equip followers of Christ to thrive in their identity, freedom, and influence.

I have over 28 years of experience in leadership and ordained ministry - serving as a pastor, church planter, regional leader, and missionary bishop in the Anglican Communion. I’ve planted two churches, started several non-profits, and taught numerous training workshops. I’m a certified leadership coach, spiritual director, and wilderness survival instructor. I’ve been married to Amanda for 24 years, and we have three children 20, 16, and 14 (and two Australian shepherds).

Ready To Invest In Your Most Important Human Relationship?


1 Hour Session: $155

 Book One Hour

1 Hour

90 Minute Session: $205

  Book 90 Minutes

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"Staying married isn't about trying to hold onto or chase a feeling. It is about keeping a promise; maintaining a sacred covenant for all of life. It is rooted in humility, a willingness to sacrifice, and to give yourself for the benefit of the other – like Jesus did for His bride, the Church." - Matt Kessler



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